In life, we tend to gravitate towards what we find interesting. Whether it's the latest gadget in the market with new features or a movie that intrigues us, it is this quest for interest that makes our life momentous. Similarly, in human interactions too, we focus on the stimulating aspects of the other person and also emulate traits that we think will pique the other person's curiosity.
Who gets the job? The candidate who is becoming increasingly thought-provoking to the employer. Brilliance and being good at what you do is indeed important but if you can’t bring flavour to the life of others—and your own—chances are that it won’t be enough.
So how do you raise a child filled with fervour? Well, there are five aspects to it. Let's have a look at them:
1. Exposure
Spend time with your child and some of your more imaginative, quirky, or even 'out-there' buddies. Allow them to witness and absorb some of your excitement, delight, and whimsy. Take your child to areas that they will enjoy. Children's museums are a natural choice, but consider how you can be more inventive. Could you discover an antique steam engine for your youngster to climb on if they enjoy trains? If they want to foray into the world of art, could you take them for an immersive art experience, which is a popular trend these days?
Interesting people have typically overcome obstacles and persevered in the face of hardship. Don't forget to throw in some challenges if your youngster is growing up in relative affluence. Making meals, earning money, doing laundry, and caring for siblings are all activities that keep them busy, and also leave them with interesting life experiences.
2. Playtime
Having and pursuing passions has a lot to do with the ability to be fascinated and curious. It's similar to the thrill of playing when you discover a passion in life. Do you recall what you used to do when you were five years old? You could get lost in street games, building a fort, or playing with dolls or cars for hours.
Rekindle some of that sensation. Lose yourself in play with your child, preferably doing something you both enjoy. You can also have fun with your child while going through the motions of everyday life. Is it possible to transform dishwashing into a game? Make going for a stroll with your dog an adventure? Demonstrate to your youngster that the world is full of possibilities for exploration; experience surprises and laughs together.
Spend less time passively consuming media (such as watching TV alone) and more time reading, watching TV, and playing board and electronic games with your family. Finally, even if you're not with them, your child should see you doing things you're enthusiastic about. They're observing and learning.
3. Questions And Answers
Curiosity breeds curiosity and a little bit of curiosity breeds greater curiosity. Ask and answer a lot of questions with your youngster to learn about the world. Pose intriguing questions to your child. When you're all together, ask the world interesting questions without necessarily addressing them to anyone in particular. Try to engage your child in back-and-forth chats about interesting topics.
4. Passion
Keep an eye out for signals that your child is interested in anything. When you observe those signals, continue to pique their interest. Purchase a book, attend a performance, purchase something reasonable, and assist them in enrolling in a class. Whatever works for you.
5. Freedom
Your child is in command of their interests, and they will develop on their own time. Allow them to pursue their passions, nearly regardless of what they are.
Allowing your child more freedom can help them acquire the habit of exploring and making their way in the world. Allow them to ride the bus on their own if you are ready to see them do so. Allow them to be in charge of their initiatives, gifts, and relationships.
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