We learn life’s most crucial and simplest lessons at home from our mother, before we are introduced to any formal mediums. Obviously as an adult, knowingly or unknowingly, we pick up traits and values from our mothers, which we implement at work every single day. Do you know which of these you have picked from your OG role model at home? Let’s find out!
Validate Your Own Efforts
I hadn't realised it until recently that I've learnt this very useful trait from my mother which is to never undertake any work for external validation or appreciation after its completion. Do the job to your level of satisfaction and move on to the next task.
Drop It And Revisit It Later
One of the most valuable lessons which I’ve picked up from my mother is to drop something (momentarily), if it’s not working in your favour. Revisit it again after some time. This short break in between always gives more clarity. I not only implement this at work, but also in various aspects of life.
Be a perfectionist in any work that you take up - Do not perform any job half-heartedly. For instance, even if you are to make the bed, ensure it is done properly.
Complete the job that you began at one go - Even if you feel tired or bored don’t leave it midway, just get done with it then and there.
Have patience - Don’t be in a hurry to complete a job fast, sometimes the secret to a good dish or meal is more than its ingredients. The dish comes together well only if the veggies are cut evenly, spices blended well and there is abundant patience to allow it to simmer and cook.
Do good to people even if their intentions aren’t right - You shouldn’t refrain from doing the right thing or the good thing just because people are mean to you.
Give due appreciation - Appreciate even the smallest effort of someone, it really boosts their morale and works wonders!
- Shambhavi's mother's work ethics mirrored by her
Here’s what Komal learnt from her mother -
Never let people take advantage of you. No matter what the blunder, don’t stress over work as it can always be managed. Never underestimate yourself.
–Lastly and most importantly, always follow your heart. If it says ‘do it’ then just go ahead with it! Nothing else matters. This is advice for life, and not just work!
‘From my stay-at-home mother, I learned the value of resourcefulness and mindfulness toward waste. She has a knack for repurposing things creatively, making sure that nothing ever goes to waste unnecessarily. This mindset taught me to see the potential in items others might overlook. Because of her thoughtful nature, she’s always prepared—even for the unexpected. I remember once needing a notebook at the last minute, and, like magic, she produced one from years before, saved from a so-called ‘waste pile.’ Her example has shaped my approach to both work and life, reminding me to be thoughtful about resources and find value in everything, big or small.’
- Mukta's mother's mantra
‘Once work is given and initiated, no matter what the hurdle or challenges that come in between, it has to be done. This kind of determination and grit is something that I’ve learnt from my mother and is something that I implement in my work daily.’
- Rajani
‘To be confident and handle any situation with confidence is what I’ve learnt from my mother.’
- Deepa
‘From my mother, I’ve learnt to be organised with my things, my work, and declutter my space and mind. My mother is a perfectionist in whatever she does – even if it is making a cup of coffee. Over the years, I’ve implemented the same ideology in my work, mirroring her. I have to give due credit to my mother, who multi-tasks efficiently and taught me to do the same. I’ve learnt to handle things at home and the work front by prioritising them to get everything done.’
- Srividhya